My youngest son Lex Sherwin Heruela Tabada,was born on May 25,2007.He was so beloved to his late Lolo Romy Heruela;he fondly him Kaka.My father-in-law was the one who stand for him as a Tatay & Lolo at the same time because during his conception I was not around due to I was away for a living in the capital Manila.Then when he turn to 1 year old,I called them to met me in Manila because I was due to fly abroad in Dubai,UAE.Basically we only have few meetings after he was born,that's why he was so special to me,actually, all my children are all special but in a way,you know,i was almost away from this child of mine for more than 2 years.It's so funny when I arrived back home coming from my latest destination of life,he didn't even give me a glance or even hug me or talk to me,maybe for him I am so foreign,WHO IS THIS GUY KISSING MY MOM,BROTHER & SISTER,& GREETING ALL MY RELATIVES,WHO IS HE? I was more than touch about the way he act towards me,only staring me look like he was something ask about the situation.But to make the story short,right now he already adjusted and we are very very close as a father-son & friend relationship you can understand on.But it took time to manage the bizarre situation between us,what touch me so much when he called me UNCLE...HOY.....TIYO......LOLO......& other callings that break me so much.The Moral lesson here is,we father's almost to go for anywhere in the world just to find a living but unfortunately we have leave somebody who's so close to us,that will break us to the point that only crying on is our best resort such situation that comes along the way.TO ALL THE FATHER'S ABROAD I SALUTE TO YOU...KUDOS TO ALL OF US!
